Question by Aamir K: I am going to call a girl selected from a Matrimonial Site?
Please help me as I am cluless as to what to ask her and get the conversation going? This is for Marriage purpose.
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Answer by CoeyG
So you’re going to buy into the slavery trade huh? Good luck to you.
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There is a great blog entry on the resource below on communication, intimacy and establishing a “connection” with a person.
Notably, check out the link on the right side of the page, too. “17 questions to get her wet” really has over 1000 questions to establish connection, common interests and getting to know someone REALLY well. Even after 21 years, my wife and I found the questions fun, revealing and stimulating.
how about the basic information you would want to find out about someone before you marry them. Like name, things they like or dislike. where they grew up….stuff like that. and why are you going to buy a wife? just go meet someone normally!
how much do you already know? take it from there.
You should start with general questions that will help the 2 of you to get to know each other. For example, ask her why she posted on a matrimonial site. Ask her if she has any pets. Ask her to tell you about her childhood – where she grew-up, how many siblings, how much schooling, what she wants to be when she grows up. That kind of thing. You should talk about yourself too. Don’t just interview her. Let the conversation flow and see where it takes you. Good luck.
have you ever met her in person at least? you should set up a date first I think.
hmm wow.. I haven’t done that before but…. I guess since it is the first phone call, try to be a little more casual, as if you are just being introduced to a friend. Tell her it’s nice to be able to finally talk to her, and be honest: tell her that you’re not exactly sure what to ask but that you would like to get to know her better and if any question makes her uncomfortable she should please let you know. Then maybe you can just start asking her some general things like: how did you get interested in the marriage site… did her family encourage it? Is she close to her family?
Then ask her what are her hobbies and main interests. Is she studying? What is her job or what does she hope to do as a job later? Then ask her what she is looking for in a marriage and in a husband:
1. is she religious? does she want her husband to be religious?
2. does she drink or smoke? does she mind if her husband does? vegetarian? etc.
3. does she want children? how many?
4. Is money important to her?
5. Are morals important to her?
You could have her online profile close to you so you can ask her questions about her profile too…
Also, make sure you also ask her if she has any questions for you. Don’t do all the talking…let her ask you things as well.
Just be nice and polite, a little humorous…and don’t criticize things or people or be arrogant in your first convo.
good luck
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